Did you do something recently that might have upset him? Perhaps things were going great between the two of you and then all of a sudden, he changed. The most important thing to a Sagittarius man besides freedom is honesty. He trusted you and he thinks that you betrayed him in some way. Yes, he could do the grown-up thing and talk to you about it but he chose to ignore you. If you know what you did and it was bad, you should definitely apologize.
Unfortunately, your fears could be justified. Sagittarius men are popular with the ladies, so one of them may have caught his attention. When a Sagittarius man ignores you for a long time, you should forget about him. Go out there and meet a man who would never risk losing a chance with a girl like you.
When he goes silent on you, you need to take action, whether you want to forget him or make him miss you. This means that you may get him to open up if you try talking about it. Have you reached out to him since he ignored you? At this point, you should move on because he shows no sincerity in investing this relationship. If you truly love him and want to fix this relationship, the answer is to widen your knowledge and impress him later. You can consider trying this way when your Sagittarius is acting distant as it somewhat helps you regain his affection.
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Interestingly, he also obsesses for home appliances, such as microwave ovens, blenders, and coffee makers. My Sag fiancee and I are engaged for 10 months now. Previously he was in relationship with another girl for 8 years. Everything was going fine since past 10 months despite it being a long distance relationship with time zone difference.
Recently I told him something about my past which he was not happy to hear about he thought I lied and we were on a verge to end this engagement. So sometimes I find nothing to talk about and I fear these all will just fade away. I really want this to work out. I am completely besotted with a Sagittarius.
We have been speaking on and off for around 4 months now, met each other twice in that time. The last time 3 weeks ago where we spent 2 days together.
He has said all the right things and every time we have spoke recently the conversation has been better than ever. Hi, Amy. He very well could either be busy and preoccupied or has lost interest. So the only thing I could recommend at this point is to wait and see if he reaches out. Just be busy with yourself and keep your options open.
Sitting here pulling my hair out as to why he would of lost interest in me. Never felt like this about someone before. We started dated end of August and had a blast until mid October…unfortunately his ex wife is a narcissist and controlled him through their daughter…he gave in to her control mid October and we did not have much contact until mid November…then we started texting again.
I try not to panic…and to play cool…have texted him 4 times in 4 days…not asking why etc…have sent him some lyrics to a track we are working on, a picture of me being out with a friend, a link to a house he is moving and then just asked him if he is ok.
I would continue to play things cool. Try to relax and not text so much. Let him come at his pace. You can ask him this bluntly. Most Sagittarian men can take such questions. Just try not to be too emotional when you confront him. We work together so we see each other almost every other day. So again being the Leo I am I sent him this video from tik tok that basically said that I had a crush on him. Then I said Sorry the wrong person with the eyes emoji to see if he would possibly respond back and I have nothing yet.
Definitely not texting him again but I just need something to know if he likes me or finds me attractive. Hi, Alexis. But yeah, take things casually, and if he does like you, things should pick up! I did everything by the book. I know not to suffocate a guy. He came to me when I asked if he would and he told me several times I am amazing, i met the kids, he involved me in taking care of things for him. And talked about me not freaking out when he goes out of town for business.
No problem, showed him what to expect when he comes home. I had a car wreck about 3 weeks ago he said he would meet me at the hospital. I reached out to him twice in 3 weeks to let him know no hard feelings and nothing. So I got on the dating site that we met on and he is on there. Move on? I have other possibilities.
And all of a sudden a close friend of his reached out to me today too while they are both on the site. I hope to hear back soon. Hi, Joy. It sounds like you really have taken care to show up in this relationship in a mature way.
I would say move on, but also be open to him showing back up. Be sure though, that if he does come back, you make him have to earn your attention a bit.
I'm a sag teen. I feel I agree with a lot of what was said. Those are some of the few traits to the complex sag.
And reffering to the comment debate, I don't understand why people get so worked up about this persons opinion on sag traits. There's much more to your natal chart making you different in comparison to the traits explained. Just because you have sag sun, or rising doesn't mean your like this.
And we all know its your Venus and partially mars that predominantly affects how you are in love. So ladies, look more into depth of our natal chart if your going to use it for checking compatibility. And to throw a twist on this, I'm dating a cancer female happily, even tho its such taboo for a sag to date an emotional sign. Its not that bad, really :P. I'm a sag and reading the posts here I love everyone doesn't matter what you are. We are not perfect in anyway I believe in order for a relationship to work both parties should be epually yoked.
Seeing eye to eye, on the same page, two peas in a pod lol you get it! Truth and honesty in any sign makes things less problematic. I totally agree with you. MOA I met a Sag 2 months ago.
Never met a Sag before and we heated off right away.. He is well traveled, opne minded and knows everything about everything.. He recently came back from a trip to South Asia and we were both excited to see each other again. As much as i was happy to see him again, I didn't allow myself to be intimate with him: being the virgo that i am, I'm still trying to protect my heart so to speak and get to know him better. However now he seems distant : he hasn't called me since and am confused to say the least.
Can you enlighten me? Anonymous, Have you read the article dear? There are two types of Sags and one of them, even more so, will never be on the end of someone's leash. A genuinely interested man pursues the object of his affection. A half interested or non-interested man will not I have an understanding now of how Sags are because of this In my mind i was like "wtf" you ignored me for weeks so i thought u did not want to be with me or see me any longer So i gave him an ultimatum For the fear of losing me Although he did Fast forward I would threaten to leave and he would act right to keep me.
I gave him the freedom and didnt ask for much just respect. When i saw it i went off on him cursed him out and told him it was over. Anonymous, You don't need any help dear. You handled it and now you can breath a sigh of relief. Why on earth would you want to win back a man that treated you like crap? What's so great about that, that you absolutely must have it back? What's so great about ten happy minutes and then weeks or months of miserable ones that you simply must have that back?
Don't grieve this, celebrate it. His actions, attitude and treatment towards you have already signaled this. And normally, I don't say this type of thing about cheating, but in this case, so what. That's what happens when men act entitled, indifferent and rude to the woman they're with - eventually the woman finds a better man. In this case, it is what it is. Not the other way around.
If you pursue men, you have no way to gauge what their intentions for you are and you walk right into a situation where you set yourself up to be used, lied to and taken for granted. Anonymous - "i made a mistake and cheated because i wasnt truly happy and i realize my mistake and no way i justify cheating.
Don't try blame it on someone because of astrology sign it more like pot calling kettle black. From the sound of it both of you guy don't deserve each other it be better you guys when your separate way :. Aphrodite - "And normally, I don't say this type of thing about cheating, but in this case, so what. Draw a line on where you stand don't just justify the reason just because you sympathies with someone :P In summary I take your word for it Anonymous base on your version of event that guy is a jerk but let me make it clear don't try to blame it on astrology just because he happen to be a sag otherwise I could also go stereotyping that all cancer are backstabber seeing how you cheated behind someone back ;.
It's my 2 cents on the issue. JustAnotherSag, In this particular case, he was out running around with another woman and then announced it to the world on social media. She was unhappy due to his behavior and she found a better man. It is what it is, and sometimes these things happen. Doesn't make it right, doesn't justify it.
But when both parties are guilty of it, there's no reason to beat yourself up over it. It's best to just accept it for what it is and move on. Yet you make no mention whatsoever about the MAN and the fact that "he posted something on a social network that he was out with some girl.
That's a very hurtful, humiliating thing to do and when you behave like that, there are consequences. It happens; it is what it is. Aphrodite She did cheat on him first, and for all we know maybe he know about it that why he post it on FB doesn't mean it the right thing to do. I'm not sizing with anyone here but the way she said it like the other person at fault when obviously both parties are at fault and if it didn't work out from the start why still hanging on to it? I didn't mention about the man because there always two side to a story, plus in term of decision making she is not strong at the start if she clearly outline right at beginning where she stand on the issues and he not follow it then just bloody kick him to the curb why still hold on to it, and if she decide to cheat him on him just to get back at him it not gone solve anything.
Two wrongs don't make a right. Aphrodite "That's a very hurtful, humiliating thing to do and when you behave like that, there are consequences. I'm going back to my previous statement two wrongs don't make a right. Anyway this is my last post on the issues I won't comment on it any further, there might be people not gone be happy with my comment but I"m a Sag and I say how I see it and just because some one get a bad apple don't go classify the rest of the population into the same category.
Hey Mirror, This guy has been sort of after me for months I have been putting him off a lot bc I have been busy with final exams. Anyway, he asked me to go to an event, I couldn't go so I gave him a counter offer over text and he responded I will think about it!! Well, the day I suggested is tomorrow.
What if I get a text at the last minute? Should I just ignore him and go into NC I need advice ASAP. Anonymous, At this point, if he contacts you to go, you've already made plans even if you haven't. And however many days he took to get back to you, you take that many days to respond - mirror his behavior. Thanks Mirror, He didnt contact me at all. So I guess this is his way of blowing off the "relationship". Very bizarre behavior and not really consistent with his usual behavior.
I doubt he would have the audacity to contact again Thanks for the answer. Anonymous, The choice is yours, do whatever you feel is necessary here - but at least by performing one or the other, you're taking steps towards looking out for yourself ;- Don't worry about him - worry about YOU.
Ok thanks. It isnt a big deal and we werent serious. I just thought he was nicer and classier than this. We are in professional school and this is the action of a pouty middle school boy! I will just keep studying for the State Bar exam we have to take and hope I dont run into him Lol Thanks. Great blog and advice. You should write a blog about bromances and how they affect men's relationships?
I feel like the bromance factor is out of control lately!! Anonymous, That's a good topic. Can you elaborate a bit? What affect are you pin pointing? The influence that other men have on other men's behavior you mean?
Yeah,,, Basically, I have noticed that men have these almost romantic friendships with their best guy friend. Theses men literally discuss everything about their pursuit of a woman with his bromance I have seen this happen and experienced this Of course, they are never wrong or did anything wrong They are the "catch" in their eyes!
Tell him that if you are not on the same page in the relationship Then go into strict No Contact and date other men until he proposes or not.
It has been over a week. So, yeah, what is with men? Literally one minute asking YOU our then within 4 hrs completely going into some sort of retaliatory NC??!! It is amazing! You are right to tell women to be cautious I can't imagine if he had pulled this after the relationship was more "progressed". Thanks for all the good tips here. It is still a blow to the ego though I'm I guess a woman that had expierienced the unthinkable!
I met a sagatarius on a dating web site had great conversation and texting back and forth regularly he even started every morning sending me a good morning text snd checked on me throughout the day. I met him onct when he came to see me at my part time job. So I called him on my lunch break just to check on him because it wss unusual not to have yslk yo him we talked and texted every day!!
When I called the numbrr it said This is not a working number! Went on the dating web site were we met I knew then his phone wasn't didconnected he had walked out of my life its so strange becsuse we hadnt even had sex yet just a kiss: aphrodite please help me understand I'm so depressed and confused now that I've passed SHOCK!!!!!
Hey Mirror!! I went offline a few minutes after I saw the message and didn't answer How can a taurus write about a sag? Please let a sag tell what a sag is about. Im a sag and hate other signs saying how we are! Or how we should be. Dont like us too bad we dont give a shit! Take us or leave us life goes on without you all! Anonymous "How can a taurus write about a sag? Banter a side, there some truth to what Aphrodite is saying if you look at thing objectively however it part and part of being a Sag.
I wouldn't trait our sign characteristic for anything. The question is we know what we are but do other people know what are we, it always fun to keep them second guessing :. I am a Sagittarius female, currently in a relationship with. Sagittarius male. This situation is a bit different because he's in prison and has been in there for 2 years now. We just got in touch with each other about 3 months ago He's already telling me he loves me, telling me he wants to be with me and have kids with me.
I don't know if its The jail talk or is he being honest. Me being a Sagittarius, I don't say things unless I actually mean it and I live by loyalty, I understand that the males are quite different. It gets real scary sometimes because this man knows when somethings not right, he knows when I'm lying, he knows when I'm feeling down without me even saying anything.. I feel like he is my other half but I'm not sure if he telling me the truth what should I do.
Hi MOA! Just finished reading most of the comments here and all I can say is Sagittarians are full of sh! All they do is sit back and prematurely assume how a relationship will turn out before giving it a chance but never think about what if their assumptions back fire on them, which is exactly what happened to my ex Sagg.
Now he's got to deal with the consequence of his Mental Actions. He missed his Blessing ME. I'm sorry to say this I had been with a sag man for almost 5 years He was super secretive I finally did. Hi, would you please comment on female Virgo dating a male Sag. He is the intellectual kind and I also want to know how to get him to notice me and what he likes in a life partner.
I am all about freedom so not stereotypically virgo, but do like having a strong bond and love. I have no problem trusting someone who is honest and communicative, and also believe space is healthy for both partners. I am an older female and I know if this sign is okay with this too. I also would like to hear more from nice Sag men and the types that like being in healthy relationships. Karim Gayraud.. VERY well said..
Hi I wanted to send a private message to you, I don't know for sure if thisll get to you but I've been dating a sagittarius man for a year now we work together same job. I guess coworkers aren't supposed to date and work the same shifts so we had to keep our relationship a secret until I had found another job or else I could be fired or my shift would change. But I were still curious as to why she said what she said and put up the photo. Then april comes and my bf tells me he were going out of town to buy a dog for us and I got excited about it.
I didn't want to panick and think anything crazy so I went home and layed down but I couldn't sleep so I got up and I drove to his house at 3am and I had a key I opened the door and found him in bed with the girl I panicked and started crying he got up and pushed me outside the door and I just started crying right outside the door I tried opening it again and he opened the door and told me to leave and the look on his face was like he was upset and shocked and embarrassed.
I told you I would call you tomorrow and I said don't flip this on me why were you in bed with that girl and he said I know I shouldn't have done that and I'm sorry just please don't come to the house do you promise me you won't come there and I didn't say anything and he says I'll call you in the morning ok i love you and again I'm sorry! I went home he texted me again and told me how sorry he was and that hed call me the next morning he called around 8am and swore he never had sex with the girl and that they got drunk and passed out but I was still wondering why her car was the only car at his house and he said another guy was there it but he had left I found out it was only him and her I got mad he tells me its nothing and that I need to stop panicking and chill out my birthday comes and he knows I wanted to go somewhere fun and we didn't do that all we did was go to applebees I wanted to have fun I love excitement and we didn't do any of the things I talked to him about I was upset because I don't ask him for much I don't ask for anything but for him to spend time with me and do something special for me and all he would say is we will I'm working on it I promise..
I'm going crazy I'm always thinking about everything and crying all the time he spends no time with meonly on sundays I always ask him if he loves me and cares about me and he says yes we have the same conversation all the time and he always tells me he's tired of going over the same thing everyday and that he tries to reassure me and he doesn't know what else to do but he's not putting himself in my shoes I asked him how would he like it if I did everything he's doing to me now with another guy what would he think?
He said he would be suspicious but he told me I just need to stop worrying and panicking so much and just chill out I thought a man was supposed to do nice things for his girlfriend, have fun with her, and do little things to make her happy I always do things for him whatever he needs I'm always there but he never is there for me.
I want to say something so bad to the girl but he keeps telling me to keep my cool and don't blow up he seems to think people at work are trying to figure out if were dating so they're messing with me but I think he's lying to me. I know this was long but I don't know what else to do I do love and want to be with him but sometimes I just want to leave I can't talk to his mom or sisters about it or with anyone else because they know him as being this great guy who's faithful and loving and caring and no one would believe me if I were to tell them all of this I told him I didn't want to go through what I've been through with my ex bf and he said he doesn't want to put me through it, he had a bad relationship before me he was with this girl for 7 years and she cheated on him.
He said he loves me and cares about me he said he loved how pretty I am and that I look nice and how I'm not cocky about it like other girls would be, he said I don't realize how nice looking I am and he said he understood me because he used to act the same way I do.
I'm shy and quiet and insecure and humble he said he used to be the same way. This is just a bunch of craziness I don't know what to do I want to stick with him but then again I'm not sure what else to do The more you tolerate this from him and permit him to lie to you, the longer it will continue. Of course he's going to tell you to just chill out - that's how he's getting away with what he's doing.
Why would you want to be with a man that takes you for granted, cheats on you caught red handed no less and treats you poorly? When a man shares his bed with a woman dear, it's for a reason. If they were drunk and just passed out - there's a sofa and the floor, ya' know?
Anonymous August 25, AM, I read the first and second of your 2 of 6 essay and all I can say why are you letting him have your way with you. I won't even bother reading the rest I can already form a conclusion from it. I won't say anything else otherwise it might lead into an argument :.
From anonymous August 25th I'm best friends with his cousin and she told me he's changed so much since he broke up with his last girlfriend I guess she cheated on him he caught her but still that is no reason to treat me this way I've been used and cheated on and disrespected so much and I'm not treating his this way I'm not cheating on him I dont't understand When we first got together he said he would treat me right and do things for me that no man has, he said he would never hurt me and he's doing it now and what makes the situation worse he acts as if he's doing nothing wrong He's always calling me crazy because I'm so curious and that girl is always posting photos of him and her online he bought her flowers again but he Denyed it to me saying they were his and know him and he told me he doesn't like flowers because they're a waste of money because eventually they die they're hard to take care of He always tells me I'm going to push him away but he's also pushing me away with what he's doing I have never read anything more true!
Drop you to the ground. They will disappear without warning for months or years and then suddenly contact you out of the blue and expect you to still want to be with them???? They are the biggest pigs ever!!! I have never met one that's a good person , my advice would be that as soon as a man tells you his star sign is Sagittarius , run for the hills! They also seem to just want to get sex out of you and when you say no , they will do anything to try and presuade you.
They are disrespectful , big headed and liars! Stay far away from them. I am doing no contact on a sag man who slacked off from his great courtship of me after we slept together. It was too soon for me, but he was relentless. He has money and he pulled out all the stops. I a angry with him a little for putting pressure on me, but I allowed him to push my boundaries in several ways, which is now a good lesson for me.
Can I get the old courtsh back or will it be business as usual. I'm fine not to let him sleep with me after I resume contact, hard work as it might be, but if h wants the big game ill give it to him. But eed to get a few more hobbies and adventure in my life first, because I'm studying so hard as well as working.
Dear moa wish I'd read this earlier! I have read "why men love bitches" and did my best to put som of it into practice.
I'm naturally aloof, which he's. Thing is he is only just divorced, and because of financial settlement issues he need timed to process his dark emotions and anger.
I picked up on his distancing and emailed him I agreed with him that we should take a break and he responded with a really understanding massage and said he admired my ability to give him space.
The thing is, I couldn't help noticing that he slacked off a bit after we slept together after two months. It was too soon for me, but never have I allowed myself to feel pressure from a man before, but he was just so relentlessly persistent. I regretted it even though he was caring, in fact what went Ruth my mind when we first made love was " he doesn't even love me" well he's never said the words, only " I love you lots". St guy has plenty of money. Is very masculine which I love and assures me that he never cheated on his wife.
He is the high achiever, even though h did a bit of drugs and fooling around before he got married 25 years ago. It has been so pressured because i am working and studying, he has been so understanding about that. I am also angry with myself for allowing me to be pressured into sleeping with him sooner at I'd have liked. I a, nary with him a bit too. I want the old courtshi. I dated a sag male for 2yrs. He cheated so so many times but did love me. At least as much as he could love anyone.
I now run from this sign whether they are "enlightened" or not! This cancerian girl was burned Badly! I'm a Sagittarius male and I don't see any wrong-doing as far as the split experiences of a progressed and unprogressed sagittarian male.
I can honestly say that I've both traits. I'm currently in college looking to obtain a paralegal degree and eventually a law degree. I also have a desire to read every book that I can get my hands on philosophical. However, I also felt "stuck" from the ages of I experienced a lot of traveling on my own from Florida, Colorado, California and to Mexico. I've also used a lot of different drugs as well and I got into trouble with four DUI's from drinking, but I don't necessarily believe it's something that speaks about the dark side of a sagittarian male.
It talks more about his curiosity with life in general and his overall seeking for the "truth" even in bad experiences of DUI's and drugs. As far as relationships, I've always had the tendency to have the most-noted "commitment issues".
That's not to say that I haven't had problems with Air signs, I've had my fair share. As for fire signs like Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. I choose not to mess around with those signs, since I know myself and knowing them to have the same tendencies.
I tend to get along best with Air signs, since they can feed my fire and I look to stay the course and experience woman within the zodiac of this sign.
To further prove my point, My mom scorpio and older brother cancer are water signs, while my dad Taurus and younger brother Virgo are both earth signs. In the end, it's helped me with all signs of the zodiac, however I plan to keep my intentions of whenever I'm ready to settle down with an Air sign. Nothing against the others "including my own sign", I just feel that Air signs complement my personality and my ambitious drive for exploration. Hector, Very well said my friend.
Thank you for truly understanding what's written here and not taking offense. And thank you for sharing with such honesty. I'm sure what you've shared will assist others on their path in life I hv a situation and want your opinion.
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